Episode 55: Relationships Beat Algorithms with George Bryant

relationships Aug 03, 2022

After nearly two decades of running my own businesses, I got so sick and tired of what I saw and experienced in the land of Marketing, Growth and Transactions. I felt an immense amount of conflict between the WAY I wanted to do business and what the WORLD told me would make success happen. 

I repeatedly felt like my  ‘soul needed a shower’ when I entered into these highly competitive, ego-centered containers - until I finally decided to ditch all the OLD ways and DO business from a completely different vantage point which revolutionized the work I got to deliver, my level of fulfillment and in turn - the financial growth + Prosperity that comes when you get things IN ORDER.

When I met George I finally felt like someone understood my heart as a service based business leader.

Today we are getting Raw and Real about Business, Outdated OLD school marketing, sales and growth strategies and how to SCALE ethically. 

George Bryant is a father, husband, leader,...

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Episode 53: Rebuilding Trust When It Has Been Broken

How do we begin to heal, restore and rebuild trust after it’s been broken?

Perhaps there's been an affair, emotional or physical cheating, or trust has been broken in other ways:  confidentiality was broken, financial mistakes swept under the rug, lack of follow through on empty promises. Lots of words and no action to back it up.

Nothing feels more painful, confusing and disheartening at the moment.

Anytime we enter into an agreement with someone,  it often comes with a whole set of unspoken expectations and hopes of how things are going to be, and when they don’t go according to plan, we become shattered. Regardless of our story, we know that if we don't honor and heal the pain of the past, those wounds will remain open and we will inevitably end repeating those patterns over and over again. 

In today’s episode I am breaking it down into two sections:

Part one is for the person that broke the trust

  • What does Radial Ownership look and sound...
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Episode 48: Is "love" enough? The Missing Ingredients of a LOVING + Thriving relationship: RESPECT + HONOR

relationships Jun 15, 2022

Are you struggling to FEEL the love inside your relationship? 

Have you ever found yourself saying “Clearly you don't love me because you said this, or you did that!” 

How many times do we throw these daggers at each other? 

How many times do we allow ourselves to confuse someone else's behavior with our identity or worth?

How many times have we operated from a distorted view of what love actually IS?

I spent years of my life feeling terrible inside of relationships because I didn’t have an understanding of what love actually was. I had an idea. I had expectations. I had illusions I was holding on to. But I did not UNDERSTAND love, let alone loving behavior. 

Everything changed for me when I came back to the true power of LOVE. It was here that I learned the places I was out of integrity + the ingredients that were missing all along. 

In todays episode we unpack:

  • Is LOVE enough inside relationships?
  • What are the missing ingredients to...
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Episode 47: Celebrating our Expansion! + Doubts, Insecurities and Fears that come up in the Process

relationships Jun 08, 2022

Are you GROWING together + CELEBRATING often, even in the midst of discomfort?

Do you have a clear VISION for yourself and as a couple?

 

Today. I am joined by one of my favorite humans on the planet, my husband, Mark. We are here to celebrate with you guys and share a personal story of our most recent UPLEVEL as a couple!  

 

Welcome to Project GRAVITAS! 

 

We just merged two homes and this has been a monumental step for us. Today we are sharing our vision with you, and with that, some of the insecurities, the doubts and the fears that showed up IN the process. 

 

Whenever you're expanding, moving into new seasons, growing as a couple or individually - there is going to be some ‘turbulence’ along the way.

 

We had to come to a place where we would both ditch our personal agendas and lead with the intention to be open to God surprising us, leading us, and being open to receive more than we imagined possible - while completely...

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Episode 44: Are You a Giver or a Taker?

How Good are you at GIVING?

Are you able to give with gratitude and appreciation?

OR Are you waiting for others to go first? Grumbling, complaining, resentful, fearful or depleted?

In today's episode we unpack:

  • How to tell if you are Giving to "Get" - why relationships feel life sucking
  • GIVING an offering vs 'trading, exchanging and bartering'?
  • GIVING from a natural state of abundance + overflow
  • How can you give if you're MALNOURISHED?
  • How fear of loss is getting in the way
  • The Spirit of Pride and how it manipulates outcomes
  • PLUS >> the PROSPERITY/Abundance principles of GIVING!

This isn’t just about MONEY - but ANY area of your life!

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Episode 34: Navigating Growth Pains + Uncertainty + Massive EXPANSION in our lives!

relationships Mar 09, 2022

How we navigate GROWTH PAINS and seasons of CHANGE as a couple

In today’s episode, we are talking about NAVIGATING the resistance that comes up inside our relationships, especially as we are moving into NEW and uncharted territories together.

This can look like many things.

  • Launching into New Careers
  • Moving to New Environments + Home Bases
  • New Adventures Calling us
  • New Visions over our Life's Work

 Maybe ALL are happening at the same time!

It’s IN these moments of transition, that SO many things come up for us as we are being STRETCHED as individuals, as a couple.

Before we know it, we might be experiencing:

  • Frustrating Communication (or lack of it)
  • More Misunderstandings than we are used to
  • Doubts + Fears + Insecurities popping up
  • A Lack of Clarity on where we are and where we are going
  • Impatience + Irritations + Judgment

We may be wondering WHAT on earth is going on here?!

In today's episode I share our own personal call to adventure right now, where God is...

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Episode 32: Better Than Before: Rebuilding Relationships Post Divorce

 

In today’s episode, I am joined by my clients, Jordan + Eric for a client interview and real-life example of two people who are committed to doing the WORK to create the relationship they desire after two really tough marriages.

They entered their second marriage with high hopes that the past was behind and things were going to be smooth sailing! But soon enough they began to realize that those same issues and painful triggers from the past were showing up again and again, themselves in a different outfit.

 

Frustrated,  and at a complete loss on WHAT to do - they reached out and committed to this JOURNEY together. They soon began to realize there was a GAP in what they THOUGHT they needed from each other  vs what was actually required from both of them to CREATE the new.

 

As always, it starts with US - not the other person.

 

The beautiful thing about these two is that they DECIDED together to truly become co-creators of the NEW together -...

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Episode 31: When others aren't ” measuring up”

Dealing with others who see things completely opposite than we do can be incredibly challenging at times. Whether it’s our partner, our EX-spouse, our young adult children who are choosing ways that make ZERO sense to our logical mind. The way we handle and view Our differences can create a LOT of tension, stress and chaos in our lives.

In todays’ episode we are talking about how to handle the traps we easily fall into when others are not measuring up to our expectations and standards.

What do you DO when someone you love thinks and acts in ways that make NO sense to you?
What about an EX husband or wife who raises the children in a completely different WAY than you would like or believe is best?
How do you navigate teens and young adults who go against the grain on the foundational things you stand for?

Today I invite you into a radical perspective shift and conscious UPGRADE as we embrace a DIFFERENT way of Looking at others and situations

We explore some of my favorite...

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Episode 30: Overcoming the Saviour Complex + Empowering One Another

Today's episode is part 2 on overcoming the "saviour" complex and moving into a place of truly EMPOWERED connection with others.

Creating the SPACE for others to DISCOVER their own strength, courage, wisdom + processes.

 It is so ENERGIZING to be IN an intimate relationship with someone who has inner confidence, takes personal ownership over their own actions and BRINGS their own ideas/vision/solutions and unique GENIUS to the relationship. 

AND .... This is a conversation transcends just our 'love' lives. 

It is practical and applicable to how we parent our kids, especially those 'young adults' stepping into their OWN ways. With our adult 'children', when to get involved, and when to LET THEM Be. Too many adults out there are still over-parenting and bailing their adult children out 20, 30, 40 years later! 

It filters into how we lead our teams at work - FREEING ourselves up to gain back more time to work...

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Episode 29: Do you have a Savior Complex? Taking Personal Response-ability

relationships Feb 02, 2022

Today we are talking about taking radical personal response-ability FOR our relationships.

 

POWER COUPLES know they are there to BRING all of who they are to the relationship. 

We are here to BRING the BEST that we have to each other and into this energetic exchange we call ‘relationship’:

 

We are called to BRING forth our gifts, our abilites, talents, our individual uniqueness, to the game.

 

We are called to embody our masculine and feminine essence - which is what creates polarity + passion! 

 

That being said, a man or woman who is showing up in a powerful sacred union  is NOT showing up to FIX, SAVE, CONTROL or MANAGE the other person.

 

They are not there for a PROJECT to keep them busy or to FIND their Meaning/Purpose.

 

They are there to celebrate, honor, respect and appreciate each other. To hold a mirror up for growth as they co-create together FROM a place of Meaning and Purpose.



So what gets in the way?

 

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